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Sunday, December 23, 2012

Be able to walk away

In any kind of negotiation, your ability to walk away is your strongest tool.
Those who can walk away from the negotiation — legitimately walk away, not just make a show of it — are in the strongest position. Those who are convinced they need to make the deal are in the weakest position.
This is true of negotiating when you’re buying a car, closing the sale of your new home, haggling in a foreign flea market, or trying to get a raise.
It’s also true of anything in life.
Know that there’s almost nothing you can’t walk away from.
If you are convinced you need a nice house with a walk-in closet and hardwood floors and a huge kitchen, you now have a weakness. You will give away precious life hours and savings to get it. Someone else who knows that those things aren’t absolutely necessary can walk away, and not need to spend so much money (and thus work hours) on that kind of house.
If you are convinced that you need Starbucks grande lattes every day, or an iPhone or iPad, or an SUV or Cooper Mini or BMW … you are in the weak position, because you can’t give it up. Someone else might know that those aren’t essential to happiness, and can walk away.
If you know that the man who is treating you badly (but who you just know will change someday, because, you know, he loves you) isn’t necessary for you to be happy, you can walk away. If you know that you can be happy alone, and that you need no one to make you happy, you can walk away.
If you know that there’s almost nothing you can’t walk away from, you can save yourself tons of money. Years of time. Mountains of headaches and heartaches. Boatloads of suffering.
You don’t need to walk away from everything, but you should know that you can. And when the cost of the deal is too great, too dear … walk away.
Credit: http://mnmlist.com/walk-away/

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Tears Are Falling




The words “Be well” seemed so sad
So tears are already welling up
They fill up in between my eyes
So I try to hide it with my hand
I heard you telling me to be happy
But when I said I couldn't go on without you
You said this is all for me
And I really hated you
Tears are falling – drip drip drip
My smile is disappearing – more and more and more
Because you once lived in my heart that I called love
And you have left me
Rain is falling – drip drip drip
I wonder if the skies know how I feel
I cover my eyes so I won’t hurt more, so I won’t see you anymore
I’m still in the same spot
Because you might turn around and come back
I count the memories one, two, three
As I stand in this place alone
Tears are falling – drip drip drip
My smile is disappearing – more and more and more
Because you once lived in my heart that I called love
And you have left me
Rain is falling – drip drip drip
I wonder if the skies know how I feel
I cover my eyes so I won’t hurt more, so I won’t see you anymore
What is love? What is separation?
Why is it only hurting me?
Making me never able to love again
Tears are falling – drip drip drip
My smile is disappearing – more and more and more
Because you once lived in my heart that I called love
And you have left me
Rain is falling – drip drip drip
I wonder if the skies know how I feel
I cover my eyes so I won’t hurt more, so I won’t see you anymore

                                                                 잘지내란 말이 슬퍼서 
벌써 눈물이 그렁 고인다
눈 틈 새로 가득 차 올라 
손으로 가려본다

행복하란 말이 들려서 
니가 없으면 안 될 거라고 해도
나를 위해 서라고 하는 
너 정말 미워 보인다

떨어진다 눈물이 뚝 뚝 뚝
사라진다 웃음이 점 점 점
사랑이라 부르던 가슴에다 품었던 
니가 나를 떠나서

내려온다 빗물이 뚝 뚝 뚝 
하늘이 내 맘을 아는지
더 아프지 말라고 너를 그만 보라고 
눈을 가려

아직 까지 나는 제 자리 
혹시 뒤돌아 돌아 올 것 같아서
하나 둘 셋 추억을 세며 
이 곳에 홀로 서 있다

떨어진다 눈물이 뚝 뚝 뚝
사라진다 웃음이 점 점 점
사랑이라 부르던 가슴에다 품었던 
니가 나를 떠나서

내려온다 빗물이 뚝 뚝 뚝
하늘이 내 맘을 아는지
더 아프지 말라고 너를 그만 보라고
눈을 가려

사랑이 뭐 길래 이별이 뭐 길래
왜 나를 아프게만 해
이제 두 번 다시는 사랑도 못 하게

떨어진다 눈물이 뚝 뚝 뚝
사라진다 웃음이 점 점 점
사랑이라 부르던 가슴에다 품었던 
니가 나를 떠나서

내려온다 빗물이 뚝 뚝 뚝
하늘이 내 맘을 아는지
더 아프지 말라고 너를 그만 보라고
눈을 가려



Cr Eng Trans: http://www.kpoplyrics.net/wax-tears-are-falling-lyrics-english-romanized.html#ixzz2EHPpeUdB 
Cr Hangul Lyrics: http://www.lyrics.kr/758#.UMCl1-RwrTc 

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